A lot of singles have mistaken dating for courtship. The two are wide apart.
Courtship is a Biblical model for the relationship between a man and woman that leads to marriage.
Everything done by both (man and woman) is within the context of the fear of God.
Courtship spans from the day a man makes his intention known to a woman and the woman accept such proposal until they eventually marry.
Dating on the other hand put romance and sex before commitment or marriage consideration. Dating happens a lot of times and more often than not ends up in abortion of unwanted pregnancy, bitterness, heartbreak, financial loss, suicide, fitting and so on.
The following case studies that I have decided to included in this free report will give you a general pattern most men and women follow in the name of loving the opposite sex. Yours is to read and consider your own life.
CASE STUDY ONE
HOW COULD I HAVE MARRIED SUCH A BEAST?
When I met my husband shortly after leaving the university, I thought I had stuck gold. He had his own house, ran a thriving business and showed me a lot of love and affection. When I got pregnant, he insisted we get married and we had lavish wedding. He’s been a good father to the two children of the marriage.
In the last few years, I’ve been regaled with stories having oral sex with some. He came home with funny smells on his person and the last strand was when a niece who came to stay during an examination complained he forced her to have sex with him.
In the end I quietly left and now am living in a flat with my kids. He’s still generous father but I kick myself for getting married to such a sex maniac. Why hadn’t I seen the signs before I married him?
COMMENTS: I feel for this woman she could be my sister. A lot of women are experiencing such disappointment why because the foundations of such marriages were faulty she could not see the true character of this man because only God can reveal the heart of men. Unfortunately for her God was not in the picture right from the onset.
The Bible says
“There is a path before each person that seems right, but it ends in death” proverbs 14:12 (NLT)
“it ends in death .” Death of such marriages, self esteem and many more.
Every man or woman is responsible for whatever choice they make as regards every area of their life, but for things to work, the fellows must follow the Divine Blueprint for choosing a marriage partner based on the infallible word of God.
Till i come your way again in next edition,the part 2 of this topic,remain blessed.
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